Firstly, I want to say that this book is simply the account of my opinions which, over time, have been followed by various friends, bringing them, according to them, inner peace and, more importantly, definitively changing their life concepts regarding love, romance, achievements, and adventures. I have decided to express here some of my experiences and rules that I have developed to survive in the emotional realm, which surprises us every second with so much fluctuation of temperaments, clashes, and conflicts to our hearts. Nothing scientifically proven, but cited as advice from psychologists. I m not an expert on the subject, but, thank God, I have been doing very well in conversations of this kind, mainly in identifying a doomed relationship or a promising one. If you truly desire a genuine, sincere, and wonderful person in your life, carefully read these phrases that I always tell my friends: If you want THE GIRL, be THE GUY or If you want THE GUY, be THE GIRL . In other words, the perfect person is the one you attract or transform. Stop waiting for the Prince or Princess to appear on a White Horse or in a Golden Carriage. The true formula of love is within ourselves and in our actions, and you will discover this in the pages of this book. A narrative of gestures and habits of both sexes that can help you in the conquest or in changing your cold and monotonous relationship.