INTRODUCTION I can t tell you exactly what you re going to like sexually. What I can offer are practical tips, safety advice and insights into the psychology of the man, as well as anything that has to do with you. One thing I hope I can do here is help you understand and accept that it s okay to want sexual power – or any other kind of power, for that matter. Though I ve had bizarre thoughts and done bizarre things for most of my life, I ve encountered the same kind of difficulty in achieving self-acceptance as many Dommes.