Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Sample Book Insights:#1 A tom man is what happens when a tomboy just never grows out of it. A tomboy is what people are usually charmed by, but nobody likes a tom man.#2 I was a tom man throughout high school, and I didn’t really start to transform into a woman until I was in college. I had a boyfriend, but I didn’t participate in the seductive arts with him. When we moved in together after college, I felt like a lost monkey.#3 I began dating men who gave me feedback on my appearance. I was sick of dating funny but emotionally stunted men, and I wanted to find a grown man. I decided that if I wanted a grown woman, I should start to become one.