Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book.Sample Book Insights:#1 The Bachelorette is a show where women choose their husbands. I was told to say what I wanted, but to also say what I meant. But how can you say what you want and mean what you want at the same time.#2 When the limos arrived, I was so excited to meet the men, but I was also extremely nervous. I felt like my heart was in my butt. I was so grateful that I was able to put those feelings into words: It’s okay! It’s all gonna be okay. I felt the same way.#3 I was the lead on the show, and when it came time for me to be the center of the show, the girl in charge of the situation, I did what needed to get done. I said what needed to get said. I smiled when I needed to smile. But my true feelings. The real me. Where was she.#4 I was supposed to say, I can see my husband being in this room, but instead I said, I can see my husband being in this room. I was trying to be safe. I was playing a part in order to please everyone else.