Dale Carnegie's book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is one of the most popular self-help books in the world. First published in 1936, it has sold millions of copies worldwide and is considered one of the most influential works of the 20th century. However, although many people have been inspired and influenced by Carnegie's book, the thesis of this e-book is that the method he proposes can have negative consequences on your interpersonal relationships. In this book, we will examine each of the principles presented by Carnegie and critically analyze how they can be applied in real life. We will argue that although some of the ideas presented in the book may have some value, many of them are simplistic and ignore the complexity of human relationships. Rather than blindly following Carnegie's method, we advocate the importance of a more holistic and empathetic approach in our interactions with others. We believe it is essential to recognize the diversity of individual perspectives and needs and develop healthy, respectful human relationships based on mutual understanding and genuine dialogue. Throughout this e-book, we hope to provide an alternative perspective to Carnegie's method and encourage readers to question their assumptions about what it means to "win friends" and "influence people."